The Match Index Life Factors

Family of Origin Match Locator

This one is heavier than the others, and that is on purpose. Family history is not an excuse for adult behavior — it may be an explanation, but the solution depends on you and your effort. If any of this stirs something bigger than you expected, that's real and worth taking seriously. This tool isn't a substitute for the ACEs questionnaire or for working with someone qualified to help you through what comes up.

“Family history and trauma backgrounds are not excuses for behaviors in adulthood. They might be explanations. The solution depends on you.”